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We live in a society bombarded by various forms of media. From TV and radio, to printed materials and the Internet, information and entertainment are a button click away. Media companies target teens. While all types of media reach our children, two in particular are worth specific note.

TELEVISION

The typical American teen watches around three hours of television a day, making it one of the primary sources for news and information. A recent Kaiser Family Foundation survey found that:

  • Over half of teens report that they have learned something important about sexual health from TV.
  • During the 2001-2 season, 83% of the shows most watched by teen audiences had sexual content, whether it was talk about sex or showing sexual behavior. »8

The prevalence of sexual content makes TV a powerful force and this has the potential to distort a sense of reality. If a behavior is seen enough, teens may begin to think it’s no big deal, even if personal or family values say otherwise.

INTERNET

Teens today belong to one of the most connected generations ever. Internet savvy, they surf the web to shop, to chat, to play games, and yes, to find out information about health issues.

  • Two out of three people aged 15-24 have used the Internet to search for health information.
  • 44% of youth have specifically searched the Internet for information on sexual health.

For the most part, youth say they find the information online to be useful, even if they remain cautious about the quality of the information. »9 Teens spend an average of over 16 hours per week online. »10 A great deal of this time is spent on non-schoolwork activities.

Since information on the Internet is unregulated, it is up to the consumer to sort through it or find ways to block out unwanted content. Chat rooms can be especially dangerous – help your teen know not everyone has his or her best interests in mind. Did you know that one out of three teenage girls has been sexually harassed in a chat room? And only 7% of those teens told their parents about the harassment, out of fear that their parents might ban them from future Internet use. »11 Girls are not the only target. One out of every five children, both genders included, who regularly go online has been approached for sex by a stranger. »12In addition, the pornography industry has saturated the Internet with porn sites and popup windows. If your child goes online, he or she has been exposed on some level to the sex industry.

The media can be a great way to initiate conversation with your teen. We encourage you to be aware of what your child watches. If possible, watch shows with your child and then discuss your thoughts, feelings, and values related to the program. Monitor what Internet sites your child visits. Above all, talk to your child about what he or she is seeing. Make sure that the media isn’t doing all of the talking.

What Can a Family Do?

  • Put limits on the number of hours and time of day that TV and the Internet/computer are available. Consider doing the same yourself.
  • Do not allow TV or Internet connection in the bedroom.
  • Teach your child to monitor his or her own media use.
  • Take advantage of one of the many screening devices available for cable TV and computers. Examples include www.getnetwise.org and www.icra.org for internet screening. Contact your cable provider for more information about parental control features.
  • Make sure homework and other responsibilities are done first.
  • Advise your child to never give out identifying information to someone online – not even the name of your family dog.

Teens, Sex and the Media

  • American youth spend more than 38 hours per week using media (TV, videos, computers, and video games).
  • Teens view TV an average of 17 hours per week and listen to several hours of music per day.
  • Youth between ages 9 through 17 years old use the Internet an average of 2 hours for 4 days per week.
  • The average teenager will see almost 14,000 sexual references each year.
  • By high school graduation, teens watched 15,000 hours of TV compared to 12,000 hours spent in the classroom.

»8 “Sex on TV 3,” January 2003, The Kaiser Family Foundation.
»9 “Generation Rx.com” December 2001, The Kaiser Family Foundation
»10 Harris Interactive poll and Teen Research Unlimited http://docs.yahoo.com/docs/pr/release1107.html

»11 “The Net Effect” 2002, Girl Scout Research Institute http://www.girlscouts.org/about/PDFs/NetEffects.pdf
»12 NY Times, “Studies Detail Solicitation of Children for Sex Online” June 20, 2001
»13 Sex, Contraception, and the Media, American Academy of Pediatrics, committee on public education, January 2001.